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Born 1951 in Livingston, MT; Education: Whitman College, B.A. (biology and chemistry), 1972; Eastern Montana College, M.S. (special education), 1973; doctoral study at University of Minnesota, 1975-79. Hobbies and other interests: Opera, classical theatre, classical music, ancient history, archaeology, farming, cosmology, physics.


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Torey L. Hayden


Writer and educator. Has worked as a special-education teacher for the emotionally disturbed, a university lecturer, a graduate lecturer, a research coordinator, a child psychologist, and a child-abuse consultant. Former archaeological site supervisor; sheep breeder.

Honors Awards

Christopher Award, 1981, for One Child; New York Times Public Library Books for the Teen Age selection, 1981, for One Child, and 1982, for Somebody Else's Kids; American Library Association Best Young-Adult Book selection, and School Library Journal Best Young-Adult Book selection, both 1983, both for Murphy's Boy.


One Child (nonfiction), Putnam (New York, NY), 1980.

Somebody Else's Kids (nonfiction), Putnam (New York, NY), 1981.

Murphy's Boy (nonfiction), Putnam (New York, NY), 1983.

The Sunflower Forest (fiction), Putnam (New York, NY), 1984.

Just Another Kid (nonfiction), Putnam (New York, NY), 1988.

Ghost Girl (nonfiction), Putnam (New York, NY), 1991.

The Tiger's Child (nonfiction), Scribner (New York, NY), 1995.

The Mechanical Cat (fiction), 1999.

Beautiful Child (nonfiction), HarperCollins Publishers (New York, NY), 2002.

The Very Worst Thing (fiction), HarperCollins Publishers (New York, NY), 2003.

Twilight Children: Three Voices No One Heard until a Therapist Listened (nonfiction), William Morrow (New York, NY), 2005.

Contributor to professional journals.


Murphy's Boy was adapted as a television movie titled Trapped in Silence, starring Marsha Mason, 1986; One Child, Somebody Else's Kids, and Murphy's Boy were adapted to audio cassette for the visually impaired.


Author and child advocate Torey L. Hayden described herself in an interview posted on her home page as "very active, very curious, and inclined to get into everything just to find out what it was like" as a child. "Also, I liked being different, so I didn't mind making a fool of myself. I liked being alone a lot because I had an extraordinary fantasy life." Hayden's vivid imagination has helped inspire several of her books for young readers, among them her fiction books The Mechanical Cat and The Very Worst Thing. In addition, her advocacy efforts have inspired works such as Twilight Children: Three Voices No One Heard until a Therapist Listened. An account of Hayden's experience in a juvenile psychiatric crisis unit, the book was praised by School Library Journal reviewer Lynn Nutwell for presenting, with "compelling grace and compassion," a realistic and "valuable perspective" on the crisis intervention field that would be valuable to "students considering career options."

Born in 1951 in Montana, Hayden was a fan of the original Star Trek television series, and as an adult she developed a keen interest in computers, learning how to both repair and build them. If she had not grown up to be a teacher and author, Hayden explained in her interview that she "would … have been an astrophysicist or a cosmologist."

As a teacher, much of Hayden's inspiration as an author has come from her work with young people, particularly students she has known and helped. In Ghost Girl she focuses on eight-year-old Jadie Ekdahl, a troubled girl who, when Hayden meets her, is electively mute: she is able to talk, but chooses not to. "Jadie might as well have been a ghost," Hayden wrote in the book; she talked to no one, and no one talked to her. To make matters worse, she had unusual behaviors, such as always walking hunched over, and drawing strange markings on her papers. Hayden has a special interest in children with elective mutism, and with her skills and knowledge she is finally able to convince Jadie to start talking. When the girl reveals horrifying stories of abuse and possible involvement in a satanic cult, Hayden is unsure of whether the girl's stories are true or new manifestations of serious psychological problems. After deciding to contact the authorities, Hayden's concerns are found to be justified, and Jadie is rescued from a terrible situation.

A reviewer in Books called Ghost Girl "fascinating," and Genevieve Stuttaford, writing in Publishers Weekly, remarked that "ultimately Jadie's is a success story, and a testament to the powers of caring and commitment." Also praising Hayden's book, a Kirkus Reviews critic observed that Ghost Girl is "Suspenseful, compelling, and offering welcome insights into troubled children and how a gifted and compassionate professional treats them."

In One Child Hayden describes the day-to-day occurrences in her classroom of emotionally disturbed children, "kids with whom nobody else wants to deal," as Bonnie J. Dodge described them in a review for English Journal. Included are a shy boy who speaks only to repeat weather forecasts; a child so abused by his parents that the beatings have caused brain damage; and Sheila, a violent, autistic, electively mute girl with a genius-level IQ. "The reader is left with a profound sense of respect and admiration for the courage, patience, and most of all, the love it takes to be such a special teacher," Dodge remarked.

As a sequel of sorts to One Child, The Tiger's Child picks up Sheila's story, following her through her teenage and adult years as Hayden continues to help the autistic genius adjust to the changing world around her. Sheila's early story is more fully told: she was pushed out of a car and abandoned on the side of the road by her mother at age four; her drug-addict father abused her; and she once set fire to a younger boy. When Hayden encounters Sheila in a clinical setting after a span of several years, the emotionally troubled girl is a fourteen-year-old punk rocker, sexually precocious, but still desperately in need of help. After a few months the two develop a shaky friendship outside of the professional arena. Hayden watches as Sheila ages and matures further; eventually, she graduates from high school and finds a job that offers her a stability and contentment she never had before. A Publishers Weekly reviewer called The Tiger's Child "an inspirational testament to the healing power of love," and remarked that "this authentic tearjerker resonates with drama." Nancy E. Zuwiyya, writing in Library Journal, observed that Hayden's "book is not only interesting as a biography of a seriously disturbed child but as a portrayal of a working psychologist." Readers "learn about the limitations on therapy and the slow, often painful process of healing," wrote Claire Rosser in Kliatt, while a Kirkus critic called The Tiger's Child "An effective chronicle of a relationship full of potholes that nonetheless brings both student and teacher further along the road to maturity."

Beautiful Child follows Hayden through another academic year with another class of "fascinating, difficult, and immensely appealing" special-needs children, wrote Francine Prose in O. The students include a boy with Tourette's syndrome, a girl who spouts sophisticated elliptical poetry when under stress, and a set of twins with the telltale signs of fetal alcohol syndrome. The "beautiful child" of the title is seven-year-old Wanda Fox, an "unwashed, smelly, drastically neglected girl," Prose noted, who is so steadfastly mute and disinterested that she is almost catatonic. Hayden wonders if Wanda is also deaf, or developmentally disabled in some way. "Though Hayden seems almost endless resourceful, dedicated, resilient, and patient, none of the tried-and-tested techniques developed in her career with special-needs children—singing, games, behavior modification, even physical force—succeed" with this child, Prose added. Hayden's narrative describing her experiences with these children "takes on a timeless quality," observed a Kirkus Reviews critic. "As well as representing all special-needs children, the students come into focus as individuals about whom the reader cares deeply." Throughout the book, Hayden "shares her own thoughts, worries, and strained relationship with a mismatched classroom aide, creating a rich tapestry of the dynamics of a group of special needs youngsters and the adults who try to help them," commented a Publishers Weekly reviewer, while David Carr, writing in Booklist, concluded that Beautiful Child "ultimately shows this kind of teaching to be the tireless embrace of the vulnerable by the devoted."

Hayden takes a break from her real-world experience to write the novel The Very Worst Thing. The only stable part of twelve-year-old David's life is his sister. Bounced from one foster home to another, David repeatedly finds himself the "new kid," ridiculed because of his stutter and academic problems. Worse, his sister is in juvenile hall. In a rage over his situation, David destroys an owl's nest, but regrets his action almost immediately. He takes the single remaining egg from the nest and raises the owl that hatches from it. When the owl ultimately declines in health due to being held in captivity, David learns about "losing something you love," according to a Kirkus Reviews critic. Calling Hayden's protagonist "a believable child with many obstacles to mount," the critic called The Very Worst Thing "a well-wrought problem novel for the younger set." While Faith Brautigam wrote in School Library Journal that "The hatching and development of the owl keep the story moving and help to compensate for some of the plot details that seem tacked on," she ultimately conceded David's story is "adequately told."

Hayden once told Something about the Author: "I don't remember when I first became interested in writing. It seems like it has been something that has been with me, been a part of me, for as long as I have memories, but I have a very clear recollection of when the magic of writing took hold. I was eight, a none-too-enthusiastic third-grader in Miss Webb's class.… I was supposed to be at my desk doing my reading workbook, but I wrote instead on the back of an old math paper. Miss Webb came down the aisle unexpectedly, caught me, and confiscated the story.

"That wasn't a particularly traumatic event. In fact, I forgot all about it until some days later when she was cleaning out her desk and found the story, which she returned to me.… Among all the memories of my childhood, that particular moment is one of the clearest. I remember the exhilaration of reading that story and finding it every bit as exciting to me as the day I wrote it. For the first time I discovered that, like a camera, words can capture the complexity, the beauty, the subtlety of life so precisely that one can return to them the next day, the next week, or years later and feel the experience they have created as powerfully as the moment it happened. That to me is magic of the first order.

"Writing remains an affair of the heart for me.… [and] each time I sit down to the typewriter to start a new book, I write it for me. I love the process of writing, the nudge and jiggle of words until that ripe moment when snap! the emotional photograph is taken and all the complex beauty of being human is captured.

"How did I come to write the books I did? In the case of the five nonfiction books, I think it was simply a desire to share my experiences, to open up to others a Together with his new foster mother, eleven-year-old David gains a sense of security and self-confidence as he helps to hatch and raise a baby owl. (Cover illustration by Michele Amatrula.) world that most people do not encounter firsthand and, if I'm honest, to open minds. All the stories told in these books are true; all the characters in them exist. They did the hard part by living; I did the easy part by writing about it."

On her home page, Hayden offered the following advice to young writers: "Know that only you can write your own story. No one else can teach you how. They can teach you the mechanics of writing, like grammar and punctuation, but only you will have your particular style. So, while it is all right to read lots of books to see how other authors write or to take creative writing classes or listen to writers speak, let your own style develop."

Biographical and Critical Sources


Booklist, August, 2002, David Carr, review of Beautiful Child, p. 1896.

Books, March, 1992, review of Ghost Girl, p. 20.

English Journal, September, 1993, Bonnie J. Dodge, review of One Child, p. 96.

Kirkus Reviews, March 15, 1991, review of Ghost Girl, p. 377; January 1, 1995, review of The Tiger's Child, p. 47; May 15, 2002, review of Beautiful Child, p. 717; May 15, 2003, review of The Very Worst Thing, p. 751.

Kliatt, July, 1996, Claire Rosser, review of The Tiger's Child, p. 27.

Library Journal, March 15, 1984; January 15, 1995, Nancy E. Zuwiyya, review of The Tiger's Child, p. 122; July, 2002, Terry Christner, review of Beautiful Child, p. 94.

Los Angeles Times, April 24, 1980.

Los Angeles Times Book Review, May 26, 1991, review of Ghost Girl, p. 8.

New York Times Book Review, May 4, 1980; April 26, 1981; March 6, 1988.

O, June, 2002, Francine Prose, review of Beautiful Child, p. 73.

Publishers Weekly, March 22, 1991, review of Ghost Girl, p. 66; January 16, 1995, review of The Tiger's Child, p. 448; May 13, 2002, review of Beautiful Child, p. 58.

School Library Journal, October, 2003, Faith Brautigam, review of The Very Worst Thing, p. 166; July, 2005, Lynn Nutwell, review of Twilight Children, p. 133.

Voice of Youth Advocates, February, 1991, Pam Spencer, review of Just Another Kid, pp. 347-348.

Washington Post, May 8, 1981; July 6, 1984; April 19, 1988.

Washington Post Book World, August 15, 1982.

Wilson Library Bulletin, February, 1985.


Torey Hayden Home Page, http://www.torey-hayden.com(July 15, 2005).*

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about 8 years ago

Hello Torey. Yes, I know not whether it is you personally who reads this here but I will tell you I am a big fan of your books that I like really the story of Sheila and named a new life. I love these books because I know know some of the pain they've been through, because I myself have grown up with an alcoholic family and I have been sexually abused by my brother for many years. Yes and I have even gone to special classes so I can not write so well nor good to Danish since I'm from Denmark so I hope you understand what I write. Just wanted to say I have great respect for what you have done through the years ..
many affectionate greetings mette

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over 6 years ago

God Save You forever, Dear Torey!

Like you, I support handicapped people and struggle everyday against a lot of prejudices, a priori, indiferrence, racism, de-humanization.

Like you I found the way to be more humain and to be empathetic with those people.

I love you non fiction books and happily neverthless i am not a teacher fulltime, I use to apply the same methods to gain the confidence of them and to help them...

Live forever! The world need people like you!

Best wishes and all my love to you

Joaquim HA

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about 7 years ago

I just finished RE-reading Murphy's Boy and am very curious as to what Kevin's future held. Did he actually graduate from high school? Was he able to "hold" his life together?

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almost 8 years ago

hey im reading your bok called somebody elses kids and i love it and i was also wandering if you actually experienced all that was going on in that book with lori and tomaso? if so i think that your a very great person for helpingthem out even though there has been there ups and downs during the time they cam to your class and till the time that they left your class.

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almost 8 years ago

I just read your book titled One Child. I was in the school library and saw the book picked it up and read a little and i had to read it. Now i am starting The Tiger's Child, and i dont like it so far

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over 7 years ago

I would like to say that Torey Hayden is an amazing women who cares deeply about the people she has written about. Torey is passionate about her work. It's very easy to just 'give up' and pass these children to others to 'deal with' but Torey has courage, desire and total dedication. I greatly admire Torey and have read all the books and they have helped me over the years with children I have worked with.
Thank you Torey for the good you have done.

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about 1 month ago

Hi again, Torey,
I just read "Twilight Children" and Cassandra is a lot like I was when I was young. I was a lot less outrageous and was more timid and withdrawn. However, what I connected with was her multiplicity. I was diagnosed in 2004 with Poly-Fragmented DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) caused by severe ritual abuse and mind control.

I loved your interventions with Cassandra. Firstly getting her to side with you and not the "Troubled Place". I, too, defended that "Place of Shame" within me against my therapists because I was trained to do so.

I also loved how you wrote all Cassandra's bad feelings on your hand and took them away. I struggle so much to let the pain, terror and shame go.

I am so grateful you are able to help kiddies before they spend a lifetime of pain and misery. I thank my therapists who do their best to help. There's still so much to do.

Thank you for what you do and who you are.

Paul the LionHeart.

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4 months ago

Hi Torey,

It's me again. I just read "Silent Boy" and watched the movie "Trapped in Silence". Kevin was both blessed and cursed with vivid memories. I have so few that I don't know much about what they did to me and worse still, what they made me do to others. I have horrible flashbacks and can't make sense of them.

I wish someone like you was there for me when I was little. I would have been spared a lifetime of misery.

In a way, your books help me feel like love is possible, even for me.

Thank you for all the kiddies you have helped over the years. The world is such a better place because you cared.

Paul the LionHeart

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4 months ago

Dear Torey,
Thank you for what you did for Jadie in "Ghost Girl". You saved her from a life of intense horror, terror and shame. I know because I am a survivor of Satanic Ritualistic Abuse (SRA) as a child and there was no one to help me until my breakdown in 2003.

Despite being the same age as you (born in 1951), I had total amnesia of any abuse. I was diagnosed with polyfragmented DID in 2004 and my first SRA memories surfaced in 2005. I have been in therapy since 2001 and am making some progress at making sense of the constant, inner madness.

Jadie was saved such horror. Thank you so much for saving one child from it. I hope you can get to read this as it helps me that you know how much I appreciate that you are there for other kiddies who suffer so much.

Thank you.

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7 months ago

Torey, how are you? I hope all is well. Hey, I'm writing a book on how to become more successful with difficult students and I thought it would be nice to have a little section in the back where some educational experts share a few of their tips for managing difficult students. Since I consider you to be one of those experts, I'm hoping you'll consider emailing me back with a few tips. Thanks. Dan

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about 1 year ago

Having purchased a number of Readers' Digest "Condensed Books" for my 'retirement', I have finally managed to read One Child. What a moving account - all the more so because it is not fiction!

I will be looking for Tiger's child but, in the meantime, I wonder what has happened to Sheil after so many years. The bio at the end of the condensed book informs me that you and she are (were?) still in touch, and that she planned to visit you, in Wales, that summer (1981?). Did she do so? What is she doing now?

It was a real "can't put it down' story - but I feel that even the sequel will leave me with a sense of it not having a proper conclusion.

Kind regards